Faith‑Based Relationship Help That Works
Practical Christian tools to resolve conflict, rebuild trust, and grow lasting love—guided by an ordained pastor with 40+ years of counseling experience.
Meet Pastor Tom
📖 Ordained Pastor / 40+ Years Certified Therapist (Gottman Institute) ❤️ Married to Wife Denise (44 years) 👨🏼🤝👨🏾 Two Children, Three Grandchildren 🐕 One Chihuahua (Joey) Hobbies (Sports, Music, Acoustic Guitar)
Free Resources to Restore Connection and Build Lasting Love
❤️ Love Chapter Challenge
The Bible has a section referred to as the "Love Chapter". It is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7;11. This chapter describes the type of unconditional love that we all should strive for. In this video series, I will challenge you to love at the highest level possible and see the amazing change that it will bring to your relationship.
Christian Counseling for Individuals & Couples | Pastor Tom
Whether you're facing personal challenges like anxiety, depression, anger, burnout, or you're seeking marriage or premarital counseling, you're in the right place. I'm an ordained Pastor with 40 years of counseling experience and am certified through the Gottman Institute. I counsel from my office in Frankfort, Indiana — and many of my clients meet with me over Zoom from hundreds of miles away. Either way works! My rates are lower than many other therapists and counselors so that more people can get the support they need. I strive to stay affordable for anyone serious about finding healing.
Here is What I Offer
Life Issues Counseling
Anxiety; Depression; Anger; Self Esteem; Trauma; Life changes; Stress; Life Coaching, etc.
Marriage/Premerital Counseling
Communication; Conflict Resolution; 7 Relationship Needs; Love/Respect; Boundaries; Love Languages; Infidelity; Roommate Syndrome; Repairing Wounds; Intimacy; etc.
Some of Our Courses
Stop Fighting, Start Resolving Course
Practical Christian relationship course to help couples resolve conflict, manage triggers, and communicate with empathy. $147 for guided tools & exercises. ❌ Stop Fighting ✅ Start Resolving is my practical, relationship skills course designed to help couples move from conflict to connection. Learn to identify unhealthy patterns, manage emotional triggers and communicate more effectively with empathy and intention. With easy-to-follow tools and Couple Exercises, this course will help you to not just stop fighting — but start truly resolving.
The Love Bank: Strengthen Your Relationship
Learn how to invest in your relationship with Pastor Tom’s Love Bank course. Stop living as roommates and start reconnecting as partners in love. 🏦 The Love Bank Determine The Health of Your Relationship - No Longer Live As Roommates.
How to Write an Apology Letter | Relationship Healing Course
Learn to write a sincere, heartfelt apology with Pastor Tom’s proven method. Restore trust, heal relationships, and strengthen love. Course only $47. 😔 How To Write An Apology Letter Here is my proven way to successfully teach clients how to make a sincere and heart-felt apology.
Relationship Health Course: 7 Needs & Love Languages
Assess your relationship’s health with Pastor Tom’s course. Learn the 7 relationship needs and love languages. Practical tools for couples. $47. 🩺 Determine The Health of Your Relationship (Learn the 7 Relationship Needs and Your Love Languages) Find out how healthy your relationship is (learn the 7 Relationship Needs and Your Love Languages).
Wedding Vows Course: Understand Their Meaning
Unlock the true meaning of your wedding vows with Pastor Tom. Deepen love, strengthen your marriage, and honor lifelong commitment for only $9. 💒 Wedding Vows Understand the beautiful meaning of your vows.
⁉️ Relationship Killer (Wrong Assumptions)
Why is it that you so easily jump to conclusions and so often are wrong about them?
Weekly Relationship Check-In Challenge
Create gratitude, honesty, and accountability in your relationship with Pastor Tom’s Weekly Relationship Check-In Challenge. Strengthen connection for just $27. 👩❤️👩 Weekly Relationship Check-in Challenge Creating feedback, accountability, gratitude and honesty in your relationship.
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Leave a message, or contact me directly: 📧 Email: tom@pastortomcounseling.com 💬 Text: 989-292-0881
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